Sexual relations with your partner might be tricky at times. You’re not in the mood, they’re not in the mood. But even after a long time without having sex, these things can still happen. Why? One reason, as Dr. Zebroff puts it, is sexual initiation. After asking thousands of participants about how their partners initiate sex, two main points stuck out. The first being, many were not happy about how their partner initiates sex and the other being, everyone is different in how they want to start having sex.
The best advice? Ask you partner what they like, don’t assume!!